Listening is not understanding.

Today I'm mad. And now I'll rant.

I have often been accused of being too private, not sharing my thoughts and feelings with those closest to me. It's true. So, I honestly believe I've made a concerted effort to expose my inner self. However, I'm a little disappointed by those around me who haven't made a decent effort to understand. Sure, you'll listen, but listening doesn't always equate to understanding.

What irritates me the most is that look, that idiotic look of disbelief that screams 'I'm too stupid to understand what you're telling me and so I'll look at you like you're not telling me the truth or am not being truthful to yourself'. If you don't get it then ask more questions, but don't insult me or condescend to me because you're too structured to think beyond anything you believe to be acceptable.

So I've decided, if you expect openness you must first prove your capability of being open minded.